We need to use language as communication to reach a non-lingual communication, “heart to heart”

Zsolt Hermann
3 min readNov 24, 2020

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Opinion from the Internet:

“I support what you are saying about the need to reach different, more positive, altruistic connections, but maybe not in so many colourful words. Translation of vitally important views get lost in all levels of egotisacal language expressions, of just a very disappointed in mate’s quality of emotion, translated in a sense.

Maybe if we started expressing ourselves with Emojis to express ourselves, we might realise life isn’t really that bad and find the humorous side of life, I mean we have already started and think about it!! Every human can understand expression it’s just languistics that makes us confused.

If we don’t stop putting harsh judgment on each other when u only really understand 1% of the truth, our world will see more distruction. And reality will be something we loose. We really need to cut English language back, not keep evolving it into expression. That’s something we need to agree on! because our true quality of meaning gets lost, when we reach out to try and express it.”

Yes, I agree. After all, we are all emotional creatures and in whatever way we communicate at the end it is the emotional impressions that make changes in us.

The ideal, most perfect communication is “non-lingual”, directly emotional, “heart to heart”, or on the level of thought.

But in order to achieve such a level of communication first of all we need to break through a lot of walls, layers that separate people from each other, building such unconditional, mutual trust that people practically dissolve into each other.

This is possible through the right, the practical method in a soft, gradual, step by step way, initially in small, closed, mutually supportive, and mutually complementing environments.

But for a method to be realistic and effective, we need to start from the state we are in now, which is our inherently egocentric, subjective state, each assessing, defining, judging reality by their own “pleasure/pain” calculations. And our method of communication is speech or writing, which is far from perfect, but still, we can describe emotions more profoundly with words, sentences than simply with a few emojis.

It is not by accident that the languages of different nations, cultures are so profound, expressing very different characteristics, Humane depth, there is a reason why they say that by learning a new language one can upgrade oneself, become a different person.

I am sure you agree that some writers, poets can use the words, sentences in a way that they can transport people into different worlds, realities, catapulting us into very realistic, tangible emotional states. Unfortunately, we are losing the art of using Human language as it is intended.

When we use language in the right way, in the right context, with the right intention, then it becomes like a code that can change both the one expressing emotional states with the language and also those who hear, read what is expressed.

With the right use of languages we can then achieve the ideal state of non-lingual, direct, emotional/thought communication we need to get to.

https://youtu.be/MFxO8pGgmm4

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Zsolt Hermann
Zsolt Hermann

Written by Zsolt Hermann

I am a Hungarian-born Orthopedic surgeon presently living in New Zealand, with a profound interest in how mutually integrated living systems work.

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