We can’t change ourselves without mutual support in the right environment!

Zsolt Hermann
2 min readJul 1, 2020


Opinion from the Internet:

“Change of self is hard but the sacrifice it takes to accomplish this goal can not be through hierarchy but where each worker has a certain task and continues, or the purpose becomes obsolete. I have given this much thought and by far am I from perfect but I try to keep on the same page as my friends as we have the same common goal, but even with that mutual trust comes prioritization and conflicts of different strategies and knowledge. One could only hope for a collective team at this point!”

I fully agree with you.

Self-change can’t happen by ourselves, alone.

This would be like trying to lift ourselves by pulling our own hair, or trying to perform “heart transplant” on ourselves.

We need a unique, closed, mutually responsible, mutually committed, mutually supportive environment as all devotes oneself to help the others to go through the necessary self-changes.

Through such “mutual guarantee”, constantly pulling, pushing, inspiring one another people can rise above themselves, and acquire a new, second nature.

And in order to avoid the constant, instinctive clashes, trying to control one another, we need a special method that teaches us how to work above, against the inevitably, constantly awakening, protesting, interfering egos!

This is why changing, choosing our environment is the most important choice in life!



Zsolt Hermann

I am a Hungarian-born Orthopedic surgeon presently living in New Zealand, with a profound interest in how mutually integrated living systems work.