True pleasures sharing will relate to new, untasted pleasures!
Opinion from the Internet about our sexual drive:
“Pleasure sharing, NICE!
I stumbled upon this proposition myself and I put it to the test. While my research may not hold up to scientific research methods, it definitely passes my own litmus test.
In my research I discovered that I discovered very little. It seems that many ancient civilizations practiced hedonism. Not only did they practice pleasure sharing, they did it in ritualistic fashion.
They didn’t need to identify as anything, they just shared pleasure. They weren’t bogged down with dogma , shame, nor religious pursicution.
This made it really hard for the ruling class to gain control. If everyone is pleased,—then where’s the incentive —to motivate these many people —to please just a few--- whilst denying themselves???
Pleasure is not all about sexual gratification but take a look at US.
We humans have this internet thingy going on and alotta' ya’s spend alotta' time on facebook. However, we spend even more time watching PORN. Yup, porn is the #1 use of the internet.
Why,— What are we seeking,— maybe more importantly,— what are we lacking???
Why do we have “the oldest profession”?
Why do we spend more time seeking misery rather than pleasure? Why do some of us find pleasure in the misery of others?
I’m of the belief that God made orgasms feel so good for a reason. I believe that reason is beyond multiplication. I believe this to be why we once practiced this pleasure sharing in such a ritualistic manner.
I get it,—— many pleasures are void of sexual gratification, I’m just using it to stir thought, discussion, a little common ground, and maybe a better understanding. I believe that we could use a little of that.
I believe that we could all stand to share a little pleasure,—- stand, sit, kneel, lay, bend--- whatever floats your boat 😉
I love my people and I just wanted you to know..
Yes, —yes my friends, there IS an easier, softer, more pleasurable way.”
You are right, pleasure comes in many forms, usually we can divide them into the “animate/instinctive” pleasures of food, sex, family, and “social” pleasures of wealth, fame, power and knowledge.
The so called “animate/instinctive” pleasures have the strongest hold on us and from those pleasures sex competes only with food for the strongest influence. The social pleasures like wealth can complement the instinctive pleasures, although we can see how the “rich and famous” use their money and power to “buy” sex (and food) in an excessive way.
Thus our entertainment, marketing, media is based almost solely on sexual images, hints regardless of what they try to sell us from lingerie to washing machines. The YouTube music videos even small children can watch border on the threshold of hardcore porn.
We are so confused by sex that modern, liberated women fighting against sexual objectification are strolling on the streets in yoga pants and open tops leaving nothing to imagination, while expecting men that usually sniff after the woman’s body like hungry dogs to behave in a civilized manner.
At the same time we were actively urging, promoting it children to deny the gender they were born with and “explore” all options as it was as easy and without consequences as changing our clothes.
The problem is that we don’t know our own nature, we consider ourselves as some sophisticated, enlightened creatures when our instincts get the better of us each and every time and there is nothing we can do against them.
Until we fully explore the desires, instincts that are truly driving us in every moment of our lives, we won’t be able to learn how to control them. And only when we learned about our instinctive desires and their hold over us and know how to use them in a controlled matter, then can see start to learn what true “pleasure-sharing” actually means.
The true pleasure sharing will relate to pleasures we haven’t even tasted, explored yet as we have been too much immersed in the instinctive and social desires and their fulfillment.