Measuring infinite love through a unique science

An opinion from the Internet about love, perfection, individual free will, and science:

“I do not understand what you are saying, that we have no individual free choice, that we are all one, and that you can measure emotions with an exact science, and so on…”

• The science I am studying is an emotional science, researching, sorting, measuring emotions, especially as we are 100% emotional creatures, our intellect is there only to understand, analyze and measure our emotions.
• Regarding feeling ourselves individually or collectively as one, we need to separate what we actually feel right now, and what actual reality is. We are all born with an inherently egocentric, subjective, individualistic consciousness, perception, sensing ourselves as standalone, individual beings, believing that we live in this “Matrix” where, as if, we were building systems, doing things according to our conscious decisions. This illusory worldview was given to us purposefully from Nature or God, whichever way we like to look at it, or want to consider it.
• The whole system of reality is a singular, perfect, integral system, in complete oneness — as most ancient philosophies, legends, faith systems also describe. But if we were born into the oneness, the perfection by default, we would have no chance of actually being conscious of it, sense it, appreciate it. As a result evolution or “God” “broke, separated the single human being into myriads of parts like separating a body into its cells”, or we can say we were given amnesia of that initial oneness, perfection, or we were made to feel as if we were born as different people, living their own lives with their own free will. But in truth, it is an illusion, and within this illusion — where everything unfolds without our choice, addition — our only free will is about returning to the single connected being, merging with each other into one — against and above our present sense of individuality. This provides us with a unique, unparalleled sense of that perfect oneness. This is why we are born into this illusion so we could consciously, by our own efforts wake up from our amnesia and return to the real, perfect, integrated existence, and this time we will sense it objectively realistically as a result of our conscious efforts.
• Love is perfectly measurable, even without much preparation. You say you love a good meal, you love an actor for example and you love your son. You are fully aware of the difference between those “loves” and the quantity, quality of that love is defined by the pain, necessity if you lost what you love. Now true love, that is not instinctive, that we are not born with, is infinite as you said. But again how do you measure infinite — against finite. So we are born with the subjective sensation of love in this world for a good meal, for appreciating someone good, or love towards our loved ones. But when you reconnect that original, single, perfect Human being from all the broken parts — each through a newly acquired, mutual, unconditional love, service to others according to the principle of “love another as yourself” — we will sense the circulation of an unprecedented life force in that integrated network which is a qualitatively completely different and quantitatively immeasurable energy, love that simply floods us, overcomes us, makes everything else irrelevant. But how do we know this — we can compare it to the known, measurable, egocentric, and subjective love, that we felt before. This is how emotional science works and this is all realistic, tangible, measurable, and repeatable.
• Without contrasts, comparative research we have no perception, we have no foundation, we are floating in thin air with philosophies, empty theories.