How to win the hearts of others?

Zsolt Hermann
Nov 19, 2021

Question from the Internet:

“How do I win the hearts of people?”

You can win the hearts of people by opening your heart towards them, by showing a positive example, by inspiring mutual trust with them.

When a person starts loving another with selfless, unconditional love, perfectly fulfilling all the needs and desires of that other exactly how that other needs it, then that other has no other option but to start to reciprocate that love as that other has no need to worry about oneself, no need to serve oneself anymore since all of the desires of that other are perfectly fulfilled by you.

This is how we can generate and sustain a perfect, “supernatural” (above our inherently selfish, egoistic subjective nature) love circulation in an environment where all are committed to “love others as they love themselves”.

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Zsolt Hermann

I am a Hungarian-born Orthopedic surgeon presently living in New Zealand, with a profound interest in how mutually integrated living systems work.