Fulfilling the Desire of Another

Zsolt Hermann
4 min readDec 31, 2024

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Humanity’s ultimate goal is to feel and fulfill each other’s desires in alignment with the attainment of the Creator. This is achieved by connecting to the system of life and striving to become similar to the Creator — a force of infinite love and bestowal.

Every individual is driven by countless desires that awaken within us moment by moment. These deficiencies and cravings give us the sensation of being alive. Yet, as we pursue fulfillment solely for ourselves, we increasingly feel how empty and aimless these desires become. Fulfillment rooted in self-interest, especially when it comes at the expense of others, leads only to dissatisfaction and a growing sense of despair.

At some point, we inevitably reach a realization — either through mounting suffering or with the help of a unique method — that our self-serving intentions are lifeless and futile. Such fulfillment brings nothing but emptiness, depression, and disgust unless our desires are used to sense and connect to the single life-creating and governing force of reality, the Creator.

The Need for a Network of Connection

This realization drives us to seek a deeper purpose: to build a unique connection network based on the laws of Arvut (mutual guarantee). Within this network, each participant strives to help all others sense and attain the Creator, the single governing force of love and bestowal. Ultimately, this network must encompass all of humanity.

According to the laws of Arvut, each individual must become a pure, self-nullified, and transparent conduit for life-creating and life-sustaining forces. By using our desires exclusively for the purpose of benefiting others, we become active participants in a system that channels the Creator’s nurturing qualities. Each person must feel responsible for the entire system, existing solely to complement and enliven others. This way, the Creator’s loving force permeates the entire network, providing a true sense of life to every individual and the collective as a whole.

Responsibility and Individual Importance

At the same time, each person must also recognize their unique and irreplaceable role. The system cannot achieve its full potential or reach perfection without every individual’s optimal contribution. This dual awareness — of being both selfless and essential — creates a sense of purpose and responsibility within each person.

We must develop an overwhelming and irrepressible desire for this role. Our sole aspiration should be to serve as intermediaries in this network, facilitating the flow of life from the Creator to others. In this way, we become active partners with the Creator, fulfilling the purpose of creation by nurturing life within the entire system. This partnership allows us to feel as though we are directly sensing and satisfying the Creator’s intent as we assist in fulfilling the Creator’s goal of sustaining and nurturing all of creation.

The True Experience of Life

The ultimate sensation of life is the experience of the Creator’s absolute and infinite love — a force that provides fulfillment and permeates every aspect of the network. Each member of the system experiences this love as it flows through them, enlivening the entire system. Without this connection, existence feels lifeless, empty, and intolerable. True life begins when we consciously participate in the Creator’s bestowing force, ensuring that every element of the system feels this love and fulfillment.

Time in Spirituality

The establishment of a network based on mutual guarantee also transforms our perception of time. In spirituality, time is the sensation of processes — cause and effect — within the system. It begins with sensing a deficiency (the past), progresses through the active drawing of fulfillment from the Creator (the present), and culminates in the sensation of fulfillment flowing through oneself to others (the future). This dynamic process of deficiency, fulfillment, and resolution constitutes the sensation of life itself.

Overcoming the Ego to Attain Balance

In nature, the inanimate, vegetative, and animate levels instinctively achieve mutual integration and balance. However, human beings, burdened by the ego, are inherently disconnected from this natural harmony. Our ego locks us into self-centeredness, where we feel only our own needs and pursue our own fulfillment, often at the expense of others.

Unlike the automatic harmony in nature, humanity must consciously and methodically develop mutual integration and balance. This effort requires working above and against our inherent egoistic nature. It is through this deliberate and challenging process that we come to sense the true meaning of life. The contrast between our natural egoism and the altruistic state we strive to attain sharpens our perception, enabling us to fully appreciate and participate in the Creator’s life-giving force.

The Peak of Evolution

By overcoming egoism and building a network of mutual guarantees, humanity achieves its predetermined status as the pinnacle of natural evolution. This process transforms us into conscious and benevolent partners with the Creator. We align ourselves with the Creator’s purpose, becoming facilitators of life and co-creators in the ongoing process of sustaining and nurturing all of existence.

Conclusion

Fulfilling the desires of others is the key to transcending the emptiness of self-serving pursuits and connecting to the Creator. By building a connection network based on mutual guarantee, we transform ourselves into conduits for the Creator’s life-creating force. Each person’s unique contribution is essential, and through this collective effort, we achieve a harmonious and fulfilling existence.

This is the ultimate purpose of life: to sense and share in the Creator’s infinite love, to participate in the nurturing of all creation, and to experience true vitality through the interconnectedness of all humanity.

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Zsolt Hermann
Zsolt Hermann

Written by Zsolt Hermann

I am a Hungarian-born Orthopedic surgeon presently living in New Zealand, with a profound interest in how mutually integrated living systems work.

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