Can we overcome our instinctive hatred towards others?

Zsolt Hermann
2 min readNov 11, 2022

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Question from the Internet:

“Is getting over hatred towards all humans nothing more than a waste of time?”

From our inherently egocentric and subjective point of view — that instinctively distrusts and hates others while automatically justifying our “self” in any given situation — it is a waste of time to try to get over our rejection and hatred towards others.

This is our actual form of life; this is how we are programmed by Nature’s evolution. We unconditionally love ourselves and irrevocably and passionately hate others — where “others” are everybody and anybody who thinks, behaves and exists differently from me.

And since our human ego — that is behind all of this — has been exponentially growing and intensifying throughout human history and throughout our individual lives, by now, we have reached the state where we can’t even keep our families together due to this inherent distrust and mutual hatred.

And as long as we blindly and instinctively follow our inherent nature, nothing will change.

We will continue cheating, tricking, deceiving, controlling, manipulating, exploiting and destroying each other until nothing remains of this world.

The only solution we have for survival and for accepting, protecting, and even loving one another is a special method that can give us new qualities and behavioural patterns.

First of all — with the help of this method and the unique environment we can organize with it — I need to recognize my true inner qualities and the desires and intentions that drive me all the time. I need to look into a brutally honest mirror in that special environment through my attitude and relation to others until I can no longer deceive myself that I have “something good in me”.

When I have irrevocably and without any doubts recognized my 100% selfish, egocentric and exploitative qualities and what they cause to others and myself, I come to actually hate who I am and how I behave. When I can no longer tolerate myself as I was born, I develop an irrepressible and intolerable urge to change and further develop myself. At the same time, from the unique environment, I also receive growing importance and attraction towards truly loving and caring qualities and abilities that I never even thought about or appreciated before.

Then — again with the help of the unique method in the special environment — I can learn how to acquire, “download” into myself new, selfless, unconditionally caring and loving qualities from Nature’s surrounding system with the help of different, so far hidden, developmental forces in Nature.

With the help of the special method and the unique, mutually supportive and mutually complementing environment, I can place myself into a “human incubator”, where I can empower and upgrade myself with these new qualities until I start to actually and practically care for and love others as if I cared and loved myself.

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Zsolt Hermann
Zsolt Hermann

Written by Zsolt Hermann

I am a Hungarian-born Orthopedic surgeon presently living in New Zealand, with a profound interest in how mutually integrated living systems work.

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